Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Elizabeth Charlish with the following comment:
My grandmother's maiden surname was Charlish and was the great-grandchild of Robert Charlish - the brother of Thomas Charlish whose joint-gravestone at Earsham, Norfolk is photographed. This image (and others on the Charlish list) would enhance my family research and I am very grateful for your offer, and will indeed acknowledge your help.